We like to think that we are in control when we are not. The reality of the situation is that we are not. It is up to us to wake up to the fact that we are not in control. This is the biggest problem with all the “I’m in control” slogans. We all need to get better at getting up when we are in control of our own lives.
The truth is that we tend to over-think. We talk about being in control but really we only have control of how we think we can be in control. When we are in control we can make our own decisions and be more in control of our own life. When we are not in control we can still make our own decisions, but we often have to take more convincing.
If we are in control, then we are in control. The problem is that we also tend to over-think. We get so wrapped up in thinking we can be in control that we fail to consider what really makes us in control or what we will actually put into practice if we are in control. We tend to set goals and then never follow through. The truth is if we set some goals and aren’t really in control of our life, then we can just work towards setting goals.
We tend to get too much into the details of things that we think are important. For example, we don’t want to go to the park until it’s dark enough to see what’s in front of you, but we do, because we think we know what’s important.
This is my favorite rule of all. That is, we tend to make ourselves a priority and then forget about things that don’t matter because we really, really want to do them. This is very often the case with our friends and family. That is, we tend to think we are important when in fact we are not, because we think we are important. It’s the same with work and other priorities.
You’re right. I am often guilty of this too, but I’ve learned that the only way to avoid this is to make sure the only people you are with are people you can be yourself with and not be judged by. I am pretty sure that if we stop judging ourselves by what we can’t get away with, we stop judging others for their own faults.
We need to do this so that when we see others doing the same things we will not judge them either. We need to be so honest with ourselves that we will stop judging other people for the way they behave. If we want to be happy, we need to stop judging others for being happy.
We all do this. It’s an automatic reflex of the body and mind. If we do it too much, it can be very damaging. When we stop judging ourselves, we stop judging others. We become ourselves in our relationships. This is a simple principle, but one that is very hard to apply in our daily life. We need to stop judging ourselves and stop judging others when they do the same thing to us that they will do to you if you judge them.
This is the way to happiness, the easy way to change the world. It is also the main idea behind the slogan “Don’t judge a man. He’s just a man.” The more we take what we are and judge it, the more we will judge ourselves.